Be Happy

This one's for the those who enjoy reading and something to induce sleep to some but on the other hand evoke thinking to several.

Most people that I know of tend to dwell on the petty things in life in which to them they consider a necessity. One of my good friends who works in a hotel got a call from his colleague and told hiim that the main entrance door fell and has broken into million pieces. We were in a bar and he stood up, seemingly looked distressed and wanted to go to the hotel. Why? I told him that his presence wouldn't change a thing. Though it'd be nice to have Samantha from Bewitch to wringle her nose and voila!, the door's fine. Real world honey, it does not happen. Another thing, do not keep rubbish in your heart. I know people (guess, i know a lot of people eh) who keep anger, hatred, negativity as whole inside of them. They dwell on them, digest them and to some extreme feeds on these negativity and yields what? More negativity! Flush them off guys. Do you really need them? Bad things inevitably do happens sometimes but if we train ourselves to move on with life and not to sip your coffee and eat your cookie in a rubbish bin,,so to speak then we should be able to live life happier. We can't change the world.

Ooh and give a little. It is possible giving time and resources to others who need them and will contribute more to your happiness and creative outlook on life than most anything else. But the world does seem selfish sometimes. But don't stop.

So, lighten up guys. Don't take yourself too seriously. Never over analyze anything and make them complicated (Avril lavigne was right here). Stress can cause many mental, physical, and spiritual problems in your life. One of the major causes of stress is worrying about things that are out of your control, and guess what? It's self inflicted. I rather stay away frm that door, it just too much emotional turmoil. I have also learnt to recognize these things and if you can truly do nothing about them, then just let them go. Yes, it is difficult at first but believe you me, it does work. Oohh..take time to laugh at yourself, be goofy and the situations you find yourself in. Laughter is a powerful, positive medicine and the calmer and more peaceful you can take things, the happier your life will be. I'd wish I'd win the Sport Toto Jackpot and I'll definitely be happier,..(enjoy this thought,...hmmmm..millionaire...yatch, big bungalow,more dogs..). It does make me happier for a while but it's worth it. Don't worry too much about the bad stuff that had happened and may happen. It wouldn't be life if some bad things don't happen, right?

Last but not least. To those who are faint hearted, stop reading here..(but its OK, we have Arteo..hehehe) I, personally belive not to spend your money only for necessities. Money is only a tool used to acquire the things you need or want in life. Do not love the tool or become a slave to it. Occasionally (once in a blue moon for those who has financial limitation), you should treat yourself and others to something special to enjoy the fruits of your labours... Come drink!! Good night, God Bless...