Relationships

I read Mesh's blog and reminded me of a certain relationship. I do agree with Mesh that when you leave a relationship resentful, then the opening chapter would be a fake one of which I believe may escalate to an ugly one. The rubbish inside is still there. The only regret I had with my previous relationship was to let it eat up my life and not making the decision to terminate the bond when I should have done so. It could have had a better closure. But then again, who would know. I mysef personally believe that it is the 'rubbish' that we keep within us that will amplify the current situation, making it yucky and smelly. Some of us hold grudges, hate, jealousy, negativity as a whole,..that's the rubbish I'm talking about.

We empty our trash on regular basis right. So why can't we do the same with our feelings? I had soem financial problems in the past and it really bugged me and I realised dwell to that 'rubbish' would be a catalyst to the outcome of your decision making, namely in your relationship. The number one downfall to all relationship, finances. Yeah we all have our share of financial woes but letting it resonant freely without much thought is scary. My solution is to clear the rubbish, and focus on the now and find your countermeasures. You will have a clearer, cleaner and odour-free decision making in life.

Most of us do not like, what I call the 'life mirror'. What's that? Its called a true, honest friend. We are afraid to see our faults, denying that we have a problem and worst still in some, knowing the situation and say 'well, that's me. Face it cause I ain't gonna change baby'. So be it, right? A relationship will break, eventually. Do we need to be proud? Is it a necessasity to 'loudly' exhibit or 'advertise' (i call it) to your acquiantances that you can do this, or I am brilliant in this without even much effort, or I was born brilliant? I don't know. You be the judge. I believe we are born different. The 16 rooms of characters identifies us all differently. And that's the thing makes us unique, I guess. So do we accept the differences in ur peers, friends and family.? Well hell yeah!

So what am I rambling about then right? Gee, damn I'm lost too.. or maybe not. The point I'd like to make is about..change. A little change today makes a lot of difference in each of our lives. It works in tandem and believe you me, the person closest to you will appreciate it. Don't hold grudges as it only makes you feel worse. The grudgee knows nothing about your feelings when you see him/her. And there you are, standing there angry..and for what? Live life happy. Let the rubbish go and your life will be a better one. I throw my trash regularly. My 'house' is cleaner and smell nice. And those who visits my 'house' will know it. Ciao!