Cest La Vie..Stop Judging

Why do we judge people? Unfortunately, despite my having an upbeat and non-judgmental attitude towards my fellow beings, one cannot help but to scrutinize people may it be in depth or just skimming the surface on their first impression. One individual seems to have so much in common to myself that I found uncanny. From his ability to think the same thing as I, to blurting out the same words at the same time are just unheard off till now. It even comes to a point of being weird. Take these new friends whom I have been going out on the regular at our watering hole. One particular character that amazes me, his ability in divulging himself in an almost endless fiddling exercises of fingering in pursuit to ultimate victory. Playing games in his cellphone whilst occasionally slurping off his beer only when senseful ‘cheers’ came about. With 'Buttons' by the Pussycat Dolls echoes in the background and Lionel Richie's & Robbie Williams wannabes echoes the room as we tried to make some good conversations, we went on knocking down Tigers in the pursuit of happiness? Not. Anyways, his (this particular friend) face sometimes almost expressionless, one cannot help but to wonder, why did he go out to have ‘fun’ on the first place. Why do people with good disposition, easy going character, invites you to go out for a drink but end up sitting quietly when you are in the pub and the pints starts coming in? Bewildered, I started to judge. Yet another individual, let's call him Mr. Cap; is in a more pleasant plains to be with. Cheerful and easy to talk to. With all the smiling does he ever get cheek cramps, and I mean facialwise. I started to judge. Going out with your mates means knocking down alcoholic beverage senseless, so I was told. The whole idea seemed justified when the beers starts coming in. As the night gets into dizzying frenzies, another group came in a night of social romps. My best mate, being less judgmental than I am, is always a cheerful bloke. I believe that if you leave all your ‘baggages’ behind, just breathe the air that everyone else does and not worry about the coming minutes, things may just look all nicey and gay. Putting this into perspective with an alcohol level of over 3.5 (not a difficult feat to accomplish), notice people starts to loosen up and the judging diminishes. So stop judging. What makes the world a better place is to stop spending petty efforts in evaluating people. I myself learnt that just a couple of weeks ago and come to think of it, am too lazy nowadays to even evaluate myself let alone others. Life comes in different array of colours, so does people. Now I'm enjoying my mates company without having to worry whether they are having a blast or not, coz I believe that they are in their own funny ways. Let's just go out and enjoy life & let the judging done by Him. It takes too much brain cells to do that,..with all the alcohol in my blood, I'd be damn lucky if I still have enough to even think... Cheers..!!