Does your partner know what turns you on? Hey Sex is important in a relationship (to me anyway).. Being intimate keeps the flame burning and breaks down boundaries in a relationship. But if its just a one night stand, then there's no point. Just wham Bam! Thank you ma'am!
I believe that both partners must be willing to understand each others needs and respond to them. So, OK if your partner wants to have sex in full public viewing, I think our country and most in the world would not approve. But getting intimate in the living or bathroom turns him/her on, I think we should consider. We are afterall in a relationship. Some enjoy a nibble behind the neck, some rubbing or massage before having actual sex.. to get the engine warmed up so to speak.
Maybe it's our culture not wanting to let ourselves go a bit. But to me, if it doesn't hurt you or your partner, then go for it. Who knows you might just enjoy it too. but if it doesn't turn you on then talk to your partner. Do other stuffs.
Communicate and experiment. If your relationship is over 2 years, then sometimes you do it a bit of varieties. Otherwise, it's like having Chicken Rice everyday for 2 years. It could get a bit boring. Why not experiment on the dish and serve it differently. Oh you know what I mean! Well, if you love your partner that much, why not right? Give and Take does help too, other than communicate. But if talking is not your thing, then, oopsss.. there are going to be some very frequent lonely nights ahead. Bah, enjoy.
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